(photo via Unsplash: Gary Bendig)
I walked out the back door and circled around toward the front of the house one recent Saturday morning, looking
for the shovel. I suspected it had been left leaning against the porch after a recent gardening project. A few weeks earlier, we had pulled out yet
another dying shrub and planted a few annuals.
The annuals – mostly Zinnias and Sunflowers sown from seed – sprouted and grew about an
inch tall, then disappeared. We figured someone ate them, most likely a rabbit.
I was hunting for the shovel so I could plant some things in another flower bed, this one beside the Little House.
I walked down our paved driveway toward the road and noticed
the yellow metal flag on our mailbox across the street was standing at full
salute. I saw no sign of the shovel
along the porch and continued toward the road, aiming to fetch the now day-old mail. Along the shoulder of the road, just
in front of the mail box, sat a large, speckled hare. I figured it would run off as I crossed the road.
The rabbit stayed still, though, as I approached. Beyond the mail box, the gravel and grass gives way to a giant field of feed corn, a tide of green that rises slowly each day. I stopped, just beside the rabbit, my sandal-ed feet pausing in the small strip where grass and gravel collide. The rabbit’s eyes bulged. They were enormous, not right at all
for a hare its size, and its breath came in short heavy pants. The fur along one side of its body was rumpled
and I leaned down to look for injuries.
I couldn’t see any blood, so I reached down with my
right hand to feel the rabbit’s back. Its
speckled fur was coarse and dense. I gently pushed the rabbit toward one side, then another, looking, again, for injuries. I wondered at its bulging eyes, were they rimmed with blood?
the hare, with its unknown injuries, I felt a familiar weight of responsibility descend. I considered picking it up and carrying it to
the house. It would likely die before
long, but I hated to think of it struggling through its last hours on the side
of the road with the sun beating down.
Also, there was our dog to consider, and the cat – I didn’t want them
crossing the busy road to catch it.
I turned to the mailbox, pulled out our mail, and locked down the bright yellow flag. I noted a pale blue envelope – real mail,
not junk – wrapped in the day’s advertisements and crossed the street, heading back to the house.
I decided to get a towel to carry the rabbit. Once it was safely inside, I’d ask my husband to take a look at it.
Walking toward the house, I reflected on the foolishness of nursing a hare to health. I, who routinely stands along the fence kvetching with our neighbors about the havoc rabbits wreak in gardens and flower beds. I remembered the plush Angora
rabbits I recently petted at my friend’s farm, their dense cashmere-like coats so different from this wild hare’s hide. Mostly, I hoped the kids wouldn’t catch wind of the rabbit before I could decide what to do with it.
It was the first morning, in over a week, that all six of us were home
together. To celebrate, I had gone to the grocery store after work the night before to buy
Buttermilk, intent on wowing us all with a new pancake recipe. I
envisioned a delicious, family breakfast, but the recipe was a flop and I gave up on the lumpy bowl of batter after producing a few half-cooked pancakes with a texture like silly-putty.
My husband, John, was in the hot kitchen trying to salvage my mess. I found him there and lured him outside to explain the rabbit situation. Armed with a beach towel, and fully prepared for a rescue operation, I led him across the road. The rabbit was still there, but had moved a
little, turned toward the field of corn.
John guessed, by the way it moved, that its foot was broken. He also commented on the bulging eyes.
“Can rabbits get rabies?” he asked. He didn’t want to touch it. I mentioned I already had.
I bent down, then, to look at its face and saw that its nose
was bloodied and raw. “Its face is
bleeding,” I said.
“I don’t think it’s going to make it,” he said.
“I don’t think so either,” I said. “But I don’t want to leave it here.”
“Should I throw it out into the corn field,” he asked, “or
get something and just hit it so it dies?”
I hated the thought of whacking it over the head, but I
hated the thought of its slow, confused, demise even more. “Do you think you could break its neck?” I
asked, thinking of the young rooster we recently dispatched.
“I’m just going to hit it,” he said. “I’ll get a bag and the shovel.”
“I can’t find the shovel,” I said as we crossed the road together.
It seemed we had come full circle.
He found the shovel, I know not where, and headed across the
street with it and a plastic bag for the body.
But he returned, soon, with the empty bag. “It went off into the corn field,” he
said. “It was already pretty far out.”
Afterwards, I stood in the disastrously dirty kitchen, leaning against the
counter, and opened the pale blue envelope. It held a card with a small
pile of cash tucked inside along with the signatures of three dear friends. They had asked, a few weeks earlier, whether we would accept a little money to help us do something fun with the kids this summer.
When I think of these two events – the injured hare and the pale blue envelope – coinciding, I am reminded of one of my favorite poems, ‘Shoulders,’ by Naomi Shihab Nye. In her poem, Nye describes a man cautiously crossing a street in the rain. The man carries his sleeping son. As he walks,
“His ear fulls up with breathing.
He hears the hum of a boy’s dream
deep inside him.”
Nye concludes her poem with a prediction,
“We are not going to be able
to live in this world
if we’re not willing to do what he’s doing
with one another.
The road will only be wide.
The rain will never stop falling.”
Nye’s poem gets at the heart of what I was doing that Saturday, what my friends were doing through their inquiries and gift. We were each crossing the street, pondering how another’s need might intersect with the abundance of our own lives. It’s not like I heard the hum of the rabbit’s dream deep inside me, but I did hear the hum of a deeper truth. All of the many roads that divide us are nothing compared to the impulses of Love and Compassion that bind us all together.