(I recently spent six days inpatient in a local Behavioral Health unit due to the onset of severe and debilitating panic attacks. I continue to work now, on the other side of that darkness, to process the experience, to understand its place in my story. To read more you may want to check out these other posts, Homesick and Brown Paper Bag (Unpacking my Recent Hospital Stay.)
Three Days
The papers I
signed in the ER
committed me
to seventy-two hours
in-patient
in the psychiatric unit. Three
days is the
initial standard of care
approved by
insurance companies everywhere
before
reassessments are made to extend
or end a
stay.
Three days
also, I read, is what it would take
to sign
myself out, even though it was a self-committal.
This gave me
pause; I thought I could leave
when I
wanted to, three days is a long time
to wait for
freedom when you feel you are ready.
Now, on the
other side of those locked doors
I cannot help
but think of the symbolism of that number –
three days –
the biblical symbol for the fullness of earthly
time.
Three days
Jonah spent in the belly of the whale,
before he
was vomited onto the shore of his calling.
Three days
walking into Nineveh, speaking the words
he feared
would cost his life, the message he didn’t
want to
give.
Three days
blind it took for Saul of Tarsus to learn
to see
again, to be reborn, renamed as Paul;
three days
to shed the old life like an empty skin
before he
could open his eyes and face the light again.
For three
days also, Jesus was in the tomb before the
grave clothes
fell off. The stone scraped against
stone
and he
emerged transformed but the same, more himself
now that the
old ways of death and decay were sloughed off
like so much
dead skin.
I was in the
hospital for six days, twice as long as I’d hoped
while my family
waited and worried at home.
Lazarus also
was an exception to the rule, for four days
he laid in dark
cave of his own grave,
that extra
day signifying that he was beyond repair.
“He
stinketh,” his sister said, but hearing his name,
he walked
out rank and disheveled, but Alive.
Six days I
waited while the old
skin, the
old life cracked and peeled back a little,
six days before
I too was vomited out those doors
to face
again the blinding light,
the One who
calls my name.
Call it what
you will – resurrection, transformation, conversion –
the tilting
of a life from darkness to light takes its own sweet time.
Now I tell
myself when darkness descends, give it time,
three days
or more in the belly, the grave, the old decaying skin,
maybe even
four or six, but as you wait, remember the light
that put you
there, the voice that calls your name (even in the dark),
the feeling
of that sandy shore beneath you when you emerge again,
reborn.
Kelly, as a young mother I did visit the hospital more than once with panic attacks and after the birth of my daughter (35 years ago) I remember a depression that lasted 6 months.
Darkness dwells at the edges of the light….and your words ring true,
"remember the light
that put you there, the voice that calls your name (even in the dark),"
He is faithful who called you to complete His work in you.
Bless you, my brave friend.
Thank you Jody. I'm finding out more and more how common it is. Thank you for taking the time to share 🙂
Oh, Kelly. This is beautiful. I am so sorry for the pain of it all – but so very grateful you are openly reflecting on it, encouraging us by your thoughtfulness and courage. Be blessed, be blessed.
Thank you Diana, thank you, thank you. I have to admit to my own hesitancy to be writing about this experience – afraid that no one will want to read. But, as always, I write to find, to make meaning because it helps.